24 hours & 24 years


Sorry I haven’t been able to write about this past weekend till now but I had a publication for work going to press this morning, so my life has been a little hectic. We ran into a few issues but finally they are all resolved and everything was approved. I can’t wait for this May issue of the Magazine I create to come out, it is a brand new layout and I designed every inch of it. That alone makes me extremely proud of myself (I think I will pat myself on my back).

Anyway, back to my birthday weekend…

Friday:
What a day… working like crazy getting things wrapped up for the weekend, I couldn’t wait to get off work. I just keep watching the clock… oh please hurry! Mr. Facebook planned to pick me up at 5:15pm to take me downtown for my birthday party and if that wasn’t good enough it was beautiful outside. Which finally gave everyone in Circle City the glimpse of spring we have all been waiting for. I was so happy to be getting a short break for the weekend and be able to enjoy the festive events of turning 24.

Arriving at Howl at the Moon, an old piano bar which is famous in Circle City for having awesome live music. I wasn’t sure who was actually going to show up. But low in behold I saw a friendly face as soon as I walked in. Siobhan… you are awesome girl! I was so glad to see you there and I couldn’t thank you enough for the gifts you got me. I loved them! While talking with Siobhan and Mr. FB, people I knew started trickling in. Before I knew it I was catching up with old friends and gabbing away about new things happening in my life.

This was the first time that Mr. FB was being introduced to some of my closest friends and I wasn’t sure how it was going to play out. But much to my delight he was amazing. He not only seem to handle himself very well but he had a way of talking to new people he never met before. Making it look like they could have been good friends chatting. Afterward I got some rave reviews from some of my girl friends, which made me feel much better that they all liked the guy I have been dating. And yes, my friends opinions matter!

I didn’t want the night to end… it was so good just kicking back and laughing with everyone. Just like in the good old college days. I can’t believe it has been two years since I graduated. Jeez… has time flown by or what! As the evening went on so did the fun… except I feel really OLD right now. Because what I’m about to tell you just might blow you away. Even though I was having a blast hanging out I was whipped by 11:30pm. What happening to me staying out all night?!?! I guess this just goes to show I feel my age just a little more each year. So Mr. FB was nice enough to bring me home, which I might add I fell asleep on the car ride back. haha what a big birthday bash I had, the clock strikes 12 and I’m sleeping like a baby. Oh well… nothing wrong with that, at least I know I did have a great time with everyone!

Saturday:
The next morning I was happy that I just popped right out of bed. So I guess it pays not staying out till the wee hours of the morning. Mr. FB asked if I would like to go to get a birthday breakfast at Cafe Patachou. That same cafe that we were suppose to go to on our first date but didn’t get to. Which the food is amazing by the way if you haven’t gone you really should. It was really sweet of him to come take me out for breakfast even though he was coming back later that night to take me out for a birthday dinner! Can you believe that??

After breakfast Mr. FB had to run a couple errands before dinner that night, so I was able to relax for a bit (time just to be me). Which was great since most of the week before I had been working really hard and it was nice just to take a break to chill for a little. It also gave me a chance to catch up with a couple of my best friends and family on the phone. Besides that the rest of the afternoon I was totally shocked at how much people really cared for me. I got flowers delivered to my door, music sent to my e-mail, Facebook messages on my wall and a ton of cards from loved ones and friends in the mail. Not expecting anything, I’m truly blessed to have such wonderful friends and family in my life! It really made my day to get things in the mail.

You know sometimes it is really hard being away from family around holidays and birthdays because you never really have the chance to share those moments with them. And I know for myself I would of loved to have spent the day with all of them for my birthday. It really makes me cherish those moments when I am able to spend time with them even more.

Saturday Night:
Okay now to Saturday night, just what you all have been waiting for right?!?! Mr. Facebook showed up promptly at my doorstep with a present and a dozen white roses in his hand. All dressed up in a nice collar shirt he was so cute because he couldn’t wait for me to open up his gift. Seriously he is spoiling me with roses… (side note: I absolutely LOVE getting flowers) except I don’t always get them. This means his roses were a real treat!

Opening his gift he anxiously waited for me to open the card. I think I was so excited I opened it right away without looking at the front at first and he stopped saying wait don’t you want to read the front?!?! I could tell he spend a lot of time trying to find just the right card. As I read it, I felt just a little emotional because not one guy I have dated has ever gotten me such a sweet card that was this nice. I can count on one hand how many times someone has done this for me before. And to think this is only after dating a month!

The card read as follows…

“Happy Birthday to the one who makes me feel special and important, cared for and HAPPY, excited and content- all at the same time. I’m so glad you’re in my life. Happy Birthday with Love… CCG, I have truly enjoyed every minute we spent together and look forward to a future with you. Happy 24th Birthday! – Mr. Facebook”

I think I read the card at least 100 times after that night… I just totally blown away. Not only did Mr. FB get me beautiful white roses and a birthday card that just wants to melt your heart, he also got me a shirt! What, another thing I was totally surprised about. I pulled out the shirt and not only did I love it but it fit! Now when does that ever happen, seriously?!?! Needless to say I ended up changing so I could wear the shirt he got me to dinner.

For dinner Mr. Facebook took me to Maggiano’s Little Italy… a great Italian food restaurant where again the food is absolutely amazing! I am very blessed to have had such an fantastic day with such an great guy! At the end of our meal, Mr. FB made sure I had cake with a candle to blow out. I really couldn’t have asked for a better birthday, it was more then perfect. After we were done with dinner he asked if I would like to go to a movie… so the night was far from over. We end up running to the movie called State of Play. If your looking for a great movie with a lot of unexpected suspense, I recommend it. I love movies like this for some reason… I guess I like the fact that it is unpredictable and I don’t know what is going to happen next.

Thus by the time the movie was over it was 12:30am and my birthday had past. It only took 24 hours to have a birthday come and go and 24 years to get to where my life is today. And I’ve come to the conclusion that I wouldn’t change a thing. I have learned some valuable lessons during my 24 years in this world but I’ve also learned the value of life and what it means to live life to it’s fullest. Gaining that wisdom alone is the best gift I could have ever received.

Hope you enjoyed my long post about my birthday… man, I had a lot to catch you up on!

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Charmed Life


Have I ever told you how much I enjoy listening to music? Since Circle City had a major snow storm last night… I ended up staying in for the day. Today besides cleaning my apartment, setting up my new computer and searching for a new job; I also looked for new tunes to fill my head with. I figure since I got the new computer why not fill it with new sounds? One particular song I came across was by Joy Williams called Charmed Life. I highly recommend you look it up on ilike.com or you can find it on itunes. It just came out this year so there is no videos of it on youtube that I could post. This song just happened to fit my personality to a tea. From the melody to the lyrics, I found myself lost in moment.

Listening to it reminded me of how charmed my life really is. I just have to open up my eyes to see the potential in the path God already has laid out before me. My favorite part of the song is this phrase, “It is plain to see what we got is color in a world of black and white.” I love the spin that thought alone puts on life, isn’t it so true? So many people are lost in a world of black and white, day in and day out. Have you ever tried living in color? We really do live in a beautiful world and honestly no matter how small or big your problems are, they will never be to big for Him. Just take comfort in the fact that He is right beside you shinning His light every step of the way.

“…There is a well lit sky hanging over everyone that is walking by. It is plain to see what we got is color in a world of black and white. Don’t even let it fool you, we got everything we need. Don’t let it even throw you, I know it is hard to believe. We are living in a charmed life…” -Joy Williams

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Melody & Lyrics


Have you ever wonder our lives would be like if we had soundtracks to them. If a song came on every time something dramatic happened or making that one defining moment seem endless with just a melody. I believe that is why we are so obsessed with watching our favorite television shows and movies. From my point of view the character’s lives are so much more interesting then are own, because of the music that is looming in the background. Music could be easily one of the biggest fundamentals to evoking emotion. We associate our hurt, romance and excitement with the not only the melody of the songs we hum along to, but also to its lyrics. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve played a song repeatedly, because nothing better seemed to express how I felt in that moment in time. I guess if I really think about it, we kind of do have our own soundtracks in a way. We are consistently painting our life story with the melody of the paths we choose to take. Writing lyrics to the legacy we are leaving behind. My question to you is what does your melody sound like? What legacy are you writing? Is it the soundtrack you would want someone else to be listening to? Just something to ponder.

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Published in: on November 25, 2008 at 7:55 am Leave a Comment
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The Holiday


Turning on my radio this morning to 93.9…Christmas music started playing out of it. What is going on ?!? Thanksgiving is still a week and a half away and we are already promoting Christmas? Does anyone else feel like the fall this year just came and went with the breeze? I love the Christmas season don’t get me wrong, I just think we should enjoy Thanksgiving and the rest of fall first before getting all pumped up for Christmas quite yet. I feel like it is being a little overly forced this year, due to the economy. Granted, I have already noticed a huge change in the stores as well. Lights are going up, Christmas music is now playing over the intercom and there is people everywhere trying to make a dash for the one day only sales. I went to the mall on Sunday with my girlfriend Carrie and I couldn’t believe how many people were there. I don’t mean to sound like the Grinch, I am really excited about Christmas I’m just not ready to give up the fall yet. I guess my hesitation for the Christmas season to start might be due to the fact I’m not dating anyone this holiday season once again. I kind of miss those days searching all over town for the perfect gift to give him and bringing in the New Year’s wrapped in his arms. Those days are long over now and I know someday I will have someone to share them with again but it kind of chokes me up just thinking about it. Even though I won’t be thinking of anyone special for the holidays, I am very grateful for the wonderful family I have. This year I will be spending almost two weeks in Florida with them! I haven’t seen them in a long time so it will be good to go back home and warm up while everyone freezes back here…hehe. Plus, I get to meet my sister Ash’s new boyfriend… I still have yet to approve the guy she has been dating the past six months! So needless to say, going to see everyone back home makes me so happy… I love them so much!

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Published in: on November 17, 2008 at 10:21 pm Comments (1)
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